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Would I take It With Me If I Moved?

10/2/2020

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We're moving, or at least we think we are. We are certainly considering it seriously. At any rate, we're in a moving mindset. 

A couple of weeks ago, my husband said to me, "When we move, we're not taking that with us." It happened to be a piece of furniture, and I happened to agree whole-heartedly with him. In fact, my response was, "I was thinking the same thing." And I was. In fact, I have been thinking that about a lot of things, and this has got me pondering: If I wouldn't take it with me when I move, why am I holding onto it?

Sometimes the answer to this question is a perfectly reasonable one. Perhaps the item is useful in the current location, but it won't be needed in the new one. Such would be the case if, for instance, you lived in an area where is snows regularly and you were moving to a southern state. You might opt not to bring the snow blower to your new location. 

Often, however, our reasons for holding onto things we wouldn't take with us if we were moving are not so easy to define and may require a little soul searching. I have decided to begin a pre-move purge. Even if we decide not to move, I know I will be glad that I embarked on this endeavor. No matter what  one's current life circumstance, a little purging is always good for the soul, not to mention one's space. 

Below is my ever-growing list of items I will not be taking with me if and when I move. I've got specific examples, but I've decided to generalize in order to provide information that will be more widely applicable. 
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What Not to Take


STUFF WE'VE OUTGROWN: Clothing is, of course, the first thing that comes to mind, but it is by no means the only category of items that fit this criteria. It is possible to outgrow items not only physically, but also intellectually, emotionally, or simply in terms of preference. As an example, a client of mine recently told me that the music in her CD collection "no longer falls on my ears like it used to." In other words, her tastes have changed. She has outgrown her old music. What have you outgrown? You don't have to wait for a move to get rid of things you no longer love.

PILLOWS: The National Sleep Foundation recommends replacing pillows every one to two years. This is because pillows absorb dust, dead skin cells, body oils, and other icky stuff that attracts dust mites and other microorganisms.  While it is possible to extend the life of some pillows by washing them every three to six months, they will not last indefinitely. The following are indications that your pillow needs replacing: 
  • It has a yellowish discoloration
  • It's flat and does not maintain its shape
  • It remains in place when folded in half
  • It is lumpy or the filling is separating
  • You wake up with neck, shoulder, or headache pain

MATTRESSES: Like pillows, mattresses serve as collection sites for all sorts of yucky stuff. There are some things you can do to care for your mattress and extend it's life, but generally speaking mattresses should be replaced every eight to ten years. Moving is a great time to assess the condition of the mattresses in your home and leave behind those that have lived a full life. 
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DAMAGED STUFF: I have a tendency to use things until they are unusable. My cell phone is a great example. My children regularly chide me about the fact that it is so outdated (I still have an iPhone 7 and my iPad is 8 years old). But it still works, albeit not as well as I would like. Another example is my blender. The lid to the pitcher does not seat properly unless you physically hold it down. It makes using the blender a bit frustrating. To replace the pitcher and lid costs almost as much as a new blender, so I am not taking the old one with me when I move. It isn't worth salvaging.

Most of us have stuff that is broken, stained, frayed, threadbare, or otherwise damaged. We hold onto such things because we once loved them, and we would like for them to be whole again or because we do not want to spend the money to replace them. Whatever our reasoning, holding onto such items only adds clutter to our lives. 
OUTDATED ELECTRONICS: We have a bin in our attic full of old electrical chargers and cords. I cannot identify the purpose of 99% of these accessories. I strongly suspect that the vast majority of these cables and cords do not work with any device currently residing in my home. We've lived here for seven years and never needed them, so they will not be coming with us when we move. Do you have any outdated electronics in your home? My page Where to Donate or Recycle Electronics offers a variety of resources for disposing of electronics safely and responsibly. 
UNUSED APPLIANCES: I knew it was time to get rid of the quesadilla maker when I went to make quesadillas and intentionally opted to use another method for preparing them. The same was true for my fondue pot. Unused appliances take up a lot of space, so parting with them is a great way to clear the clutter from your kitchen. 
UNUSED SURPLUS: I'm a firm believer in being prepared and keeping things on hand that you use regularly. It's wonderful to be able to pull a staple item off the shelf when you run low rather than having to run to the store. That said, most of us hold onto an excess of things we don't use or only use periodically. In the case of food items, this can be doubly wasteful. The space needed to store the items is wasted, and often the items themselves go to waste because they expire and have to be discarded.  

I happen to have a weakness for school supplies. Despite the fact that I have resisted the urge to 'stock up' on such items during the late summer sales for the past two years since my youngest child graduated high school, I still have drawers and bins teaming with empty notebooks, unopened bags of pens, and other school essentials. It's time to make a realistic assessment of what we will actually use in a timely manner and edit my cache. 

DUPLICATES: We recently bought a brand new squeegee to push the rain off our deck. A few weeks later we discovered that we already owned a squeegee - the exact same squeegee, in fact. One of them is going to find a new home before we move. A couple of years ago, we received a waffle iron as a gift. We already had a waffle iron. Since getting the new one, I have not used the old one. I'm keeping the new one and bidding the old one farewell. As the wife of an army officer, I also have an impressive collection of serving trays which have seen a lot of use over the years. In addition to my own collection, I inherited several from my step mom. These days they don't get nearly as much use as they once did. Time to pare down the collection and pass some on to another user. 

Chances are you can think of similar examples among your possessions. If you have two, and one will do, I encourage you to choose your favorite and give the extra one away. 
STUFF THAT"S MOSTLY USED: The list of examples that fit into this category is potentially unending. I'll just give you a few to get your mind going: lipstick and other cosmetics, nail polish, partially burned candles, gift wrap scraps, craft supplies, medicines you no longer take, paint or glue that's drying up, lotions and other toiletries you tried but didn't love. You get the idea. Look for stuff that's been opened and partially used that's been sitting around for some time. Ask yourself if you're ever going to use it and get rid of it if the answer is no. 
STUFF I"VE BEEN KEEPING FOR THE WRONG REASON: As an organizer I am not completely immune to the subtle, yet alluring, array of excuses that cause us to keep things we don't want or need. My moving game plan is thus: make an honest assessment as to why I am keeping things and part with those things that have been burdening me in one way or another. Examples include things I've kept out of guilt, things I've kept out of laziness, things I've kept out of a sense of sentimentality, and things I've kept just in case. Whether you are  moving or not, it is always freeing to let go of things that have been burdening you, so I'm looking forward to this part of the purging process in particular. 

Be Motivated By Moving 
​(whether or not you actually are)

When my husband retired and took a civilian job, we thought our moving days were behind us. It turns out, moving is in our blood. As strange as it sounds, I have missed it (a little). One of my favorite things about moving is the opportunity it affords to take careful stock of our possessions and do a deep purge of those things that are no longer meeting our needs. I'm excited to begin this process anew. 

Even if you don't have the excuse of moving to inspire you to edit your excess, the idea of moving can inform your decision making. Ask yourself "Would I take this with me if I moved?" If the answer is no, you know what to do. 
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12 Comments
Seana Turner link
10/12/2020 07:56:08 am

It's so funny that this was your topic this week. Just yesterday I was putting away some pillows in my linen closet, and I had the distinct thought that if/when we move, I will just abandon almost everything in that closet. It is kind of tired. I think I would just rather start fresh and donate the old ones. I guess it is running through the back of my mind as well, and I completely agree that a lot of what we own might not be worth the cost of moving it!

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Sheri Steed link
10/12/2020 11:46:54 am

That is funny. I think sometimes it’s almost like a reflex for people to just pack everything up and move it, but you can save a lot of time, money, and space by leaving the unwanted behind.

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Diane N Quintana link
10/12/2020 08:13:59 am

I love the way you framed this question. I will probably be moving next summer and will not take my filing cabinet with me because it's broken. I hang onto it because I don't want to get everything out and then go to the trouble of finding a new one (this one looks like furniture). But, I will happily do just that when I move. Great post!

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Sheri Steed link
10/12/2020 11:50:04 am

I think we all have those items that we hang onto because it isn’t worth the effort or expense to discard or replace them, but it feels good when the time comes to get rid of them!

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Ronni Eisenberg link
10/12/2020 08:27:42 am

Moving is the best time to edit and get organized. Why move anything that you don’t use, need, like or want?.
I really like how you presented a well thought out way to make decisions about our belongings, just as you did for yourself. Your step by step approach makes it easy and doable.

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Sheri Steed link
10/12/2020 11:52:50 am

Moving really is the best time! I actually really love the opportunity it provides to edit and rethink things. It’s refreshing to me!

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Sabrina Quairoli link
10/12/2020 09:17:04 am

My husband and I have had the same discussion. Some items were just needed for this home and will not be needed for the next home. It's great to spend time now way before moving, to visit these areas that are hidden away. Thanks for sharing! Great list of items not to take.

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Sheri Steed link
10/12/2020 11:56:46 am

It is really nice to think through these things well before a move. That’s a great point. There are so many things to think and stress about during a move. I think that’s one reason people don’t purge as much as they might like. It can get overwhelming in the thick of things.

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Melanie link
10/12/2020 02:33:17 pm

This topic seems to be coming up a lot right now! My in laws just moved yesterday and we spent some time going through a lot of these things amd and having to make tough decisions.

Great suggestions. Thank you!

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Sheri Steed link
10/12/2020 03:03:13 pm

It’s funny how that happens with topics. I’ve noticed that as well. I covered the easy stuff here. It’s true that some decisions are much harder, especially if you’re in the downsizing phase of life.

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Janet Schiesl link
10/13/2020 05:40:12 am

I had the same mindset when we did a renovation of our master bath. I wanted to move out of the space while the work was done, which meant moving all the clothing from the closet as well as everything from the bathroom. I let go of so many things because it wasn't worth finding even a temporary home for them. I love the concept.

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Sheri Steed link
10/13/2020 06:44:17 am

I’ve been thinking something similar about my own closet, even though the closet in the new house is quite a bit larger.

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