How to Prepare for Home Learning

As the start of a new school year approaches, many parents are holding their breath, waiting to learn whether or not their school district will resume face to face classes. Some are anxious about sending their kids to school with the COVID-19 virus still raging. Others are anxious at the prospect of having to school their kids from home.

No matter where you fall on the spectrum, there's a good chance you're feeling some amount of stress with regard to your kid's schooling. With that in mind, it's a good idea to be ready to oversee your children's education, no matter what the plan is for your school district, as a spike in cases could easily lead to another shut down. 

You Can Do It!

We home-schooled our kids for seven years. Thankfully, homeschooling was an intentional choice for us and not something that was forced upon us suddenly by an unforeseen event beyond our control. That said, it was still a bit overwhelming at first. We learned as we went along, and I look back on the experience with great fondness. 

For me, homeschooling four kids was a full-time job. These days many families can't afford to have one parent at home full-time. That means managing work demands (possibly from home) in addition to all the other responsibilities you may be juggling. I learned quickly that the more organized I was, the easier it was to stay on top of things. Below you'll find a list of things that I did to get organized for home learning. I hope they will be helpful to you as you take on the added responsibility of overseeing your child's education. 

Create a School Space

,It's important to have a dedicated space for home learning.

Your kids will try to argue otherwise. They will say that they can work just fine sprawled out on the floor, lying on their bed, or in any number of recumbent positions around the house. That may be what they want, but it is not the most ideal posture or place for dedicated mental effort. 

You may think a desk in their room is a good solution. To a degree it can work in certain circumstances and for certain children, but in my experience it is not the best solution.  Children's bedrooms are often filled with distractions which can easily submarine their ability to remain focused and on task. In addition, most school work beyond the early elementary level is done on a tablet or computer these days. These devices are themselves instruments of distraction.

It's best to have the kids where you can easily supervise their efforts. That doesn't mean they can't spread out and work in different locations on different assignments, but there should be a space dedicated to 'sit down', supervised work. 

Since most of us do not have a spare room we can convert into our personal schoolhouse, you will most likely need to designate a space within a space for your learning adventures. The ideal school space will include:

• a table of some sort
• comfortable (but not too comfortable!) seating
• good lighting
• internet connectivity
• easy access to electrical outlets for keeping devices charged
• storage space for frequently used school supplies such as pens, pencils, notebooks, and whatever else is regularly required for the completion of your child's assignments and projects. 

Obviously, the more children you have, the more work and storage space you will need. While you may find it best to separate your kids so they don't distract each other, especially when they are working independently, that won't negate the need for a home school home base. 

Establish Expectations

Your children will have preconceived notions about what school should be like. They will probably also have a conception of home as a place to hang out, play, relax, etc. It may be an uphill battle at first getting them to "do school" at home. One thing you can do to help lessen the friction of the transition is to establish and enforce expectations.

I recommend a family council in which you establish these expectations with the help of your children. Consider this basic format for your discussion:

• Start by asking your kids what sort of rules existed in their school classrooms.
• As they identify common rules they have encountered, ask them why those rules were necessary and important. If they aren't getting there on their own, help them puzzle through the reasons behind the rules.
• Next talk about what makes doing school at home different from doing school at school. Understanding your child's perspective and concerns can help you be more patient and empathetic to their struggles. 
• Ask your kids what sort of 'classroom rules' your family should have for doing school at home. Depending on their age, they may identify some things that are not pertinent or helpful. It's important that they feel like they are contributing to the discussion, but it's not necessary that every suggestion be etched in the stone tablets of your homeschooling commandments. 
• Rules are typically associated with consequences, so it's a good idea to establish some. Including your kids in the establishment of consequences will make them more inclined to take ownership. 
• Take a family vote on which suggested rules you want to adopt for home learning and the consequences for violating the rules. Consider a staged consequence system in which the first violation results in a warning, the second in the loss of a privilege, and so forth.
• Post your family home learning rules and the designated consequences for violating them as a reminder in your  school space. In the interest of space and clarity, I recommend typing them up on the computer and printing them out. Invite your kids to decorate the poster or page on which they are displayed. This will reinforce the rules and consequences in their minds and add to their sense of ownership.  

Stick to a Schedule

When the kids are home all day every day it can be tempting to just do things when you get around to them, but it's important to establish a schedule and stick to it as best you can. The more regimented your routine, the more likely your kids will adapt to it favorably. 

One of the up sides of doing school at home is that you can create a schedule that works best for you and your family. In our family, that meant starting school each day at 9:00 am. There was no need to start earlier, and waiting until 9:00 gave me time to have a personal devotional, exercise, shower, fix a good breakfast for everyone, and clean up the breakfast dishes - all things I knew would be important for my personal sanity. It also meant I never had to wake my kids up for school. They could sleep as long as they needed to and still be ready in plenty of time for the start of the school day. 

As you prepare a school schedule for home learning, think about what matters most to you and your family. Include regular breaks for you and your kids. Think about when you and they are at your best and schedule the most rigorous part of the learning day to coincide. Are your kids fresh and raring to go first thing but sluggish after lunch? Or do they take a while to get going in the morning? In our case, we focused on core subjects and seated work before lunch and left the afternoon for hands on, project oriented subjects like science, art, and social studies. 

Another bonus of homeschooling is that it often does not take as large a chunk of the day as traditional classroom learning. Transitions are swifter, instructions tend to be less tedious, and kids can work at their own pace.

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Working Around Work

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If you are working from home or outside the home, that will obviously impact your availability to oversee your children's' learning. Talk to your boss about adjusting your schedule if needed. Chances are he or she may be knee deep in supervising home learning as well and thus understand. Perhaps you could go in later or get off earlier or some combination of the two.

​If you're working from home, see if you can schedule your work hours outside the time frame when your kids are most focused and cooperative. 

Schedule a Parent Recess

I don't have to tell you that you need a break, but you may need a reminder that it's OK to take one. Not only is it OK, it's essential. When your kids are home all day every day, you need a break from each other. They need time to pursue their own interests, and you need time to recharge and 'get things done'.

​Whether you are working while homeschooling or homeschooling full time (still a difficult job), you need to find time every day for you - time to put your feet up and do something you enjoy, if only for a few minutes. Doing so will  add to your success and well-being. 

Put Your Kids to Work

Having kids home all the time means the house gets even messier. Homeschooling is a great opportunity to teach your kids some life skills and responsibility. 

When we made the decision to homeschool our kids, we made the decision to put them to work.  They had chore charts with simple jobs before we began, but once we started homeschooling those things became a part of our curriculum. We started by identifying skills we wanted them to develop and determining what jobs were most realistic for each of our kids based on their ages. Then we started a concerted campaign to teach them to work.  

Take Advantage of Available Resources 

One of the things that intimidates many parents when in comes to homeschooling is their own sense of inadequacy in one or more subject areas. These days parents have an abundance of excellent educational resources at their fingertips to help lesson the teaching burden and enhance learning for their children. Here are just a few examples of the kinds of resources you can harness as a home educator:

• Online Libraries like Open Education Resources (OER) Commons
• ​Online Instruction Resources like Khan Academy
• General Education Resources like Open Culture and We Are Teachers
• Printable worksheets and online learning games from sources like Education.com
• Virtual Field Trips. Good sources include Discovery Education and this list from Good Housekeeping.

Another excellent way to make use of technology for learning is through utilizing family and friends. This can be done in person or virtually through video conferencing applications like Zoom or Cisco . If you're not great at science or math or some other subject, think about friends, neighbors, and members of your extended family who may excel in areas where you struggle. Then recruit them to work with your child in their area of expertise. Chances are they would love to help, especially if they don't have kids at home.

​Another option is to trade teaching with friends. When we were homeschooling, I taught a basic core curriculum to a family of refugees preparing to immigrate to an English speaking country and the father, who was a microbiologist and fluent English speaker, taught biology to my high schooler with enthusiasm and gusto. It was a great trade!

Benefits of Learning from Home

If homeschooling is being thrust upon you, it can be tempting to dwell on the down side of the situation, but there are many potential benefits of homeschooling. These include:

• It gets you actively involved in your child's education. That's important. Prepare to be impressed by what they know, surprised by what they don't, and frustrated by the curriculum. You may find yourself driven by these insights to be more involved when things return to normal. 
• It allows children the freedom to work at their own pace. 
• It provides you and your children the opportunity to be creative and explore topics that interest you/them. 
• It gives you the ability to accommodate your child's specific learning style and needs. 
• It's a great check on learning. If your child does poorly on an assignment in a traditional classroom, they will get a bad grade. If they do poorly on an assignment at  home, you can go back over the material with them and help ensure that they understand it before moving on. 
• It's an opportunity to instill good study habits and a solid work ethic. My children will tell you that my homeschooling motto was: "Do it nice, or do it twice!" 
• It will actually help you improve your own basic skills. I never understood math so well as I did when I was teaching it to my elementary aged children. Things made sense in a way they never had when I was the student. 
• Every day can be pajama day!

Whatever your personal educational choice for your children may be, I hope this has given you the confidence to trust yourself should you be called upon to take charge of your child's learning. I believe in your ability to succeed! I also believe that homeschooling can be a blessing for both parents and children.